MY OPINION ON RAPE

I want you to read this with an open mind. When a lady is raped, she goes into a very devastating trauma. Her brain tries to fight the reality of being raped. A number of things could happen. She may forget the details of how it happened. This is because her brain is trying to sink humiliating experiences into oblivion, so that her esteem can be rebuilt. It happens to all of us. We forget details of humiliating experiences in order to retain our sanity. The trauma of being raped can be that subtle. Sometimes, the brain tries to protect her from the pain by giving her doses or degrees of the shock slowly, so that she looks for rationalizations. The brain could do a number of things depending on the individual. A curious angle is the one in which, if she does not get justice immediately, she transfers justice to the next man who tries to kiss her without her consent. The severity of her reaction would startle the man. She may even knife him. This action is needed to balance or foreclose the equation of her rape experience. We must be deeply psychological. When I see fellow men deriding or mocking a female rape victim, asking her all sorts of detailed questions which are painful for her to remember, I wince in shock. Education is not only book knowledge. There is a way to establish if the lady is lying or telling the truth. You can't just say because her story is incoherent, that she is lying. Remember I said something about a kind of forgetfulness or amnesia that her brain went into just to protect her sanity. The way to know the truth is to take her back to the physical scene of the rape. Her reactions will be closely observed by a trained psychologist. Men must be careful how they approach female rape victims. You must be careful how you equate her level of incoherence to your decision that she must be raising a false alarm. And this is even more complicated if the rape happened when she was very young.
When you want to have sex with a lady and she begins to resist vehemently, don't interpret her reaction to mean that she wants you to put more pressure so that she can submit to your roughness. Many men have this belief and they end up raping women unknowingly!!!!! They rationalize it is consensual sex. Therein lies all the difference.
Like I said the brain of a raped victim can do a number of unbelievable things. The most amazing of them is when her brain forces her to love her rapist. This is Stockholm syndrome. She has been broken and she needs help. She becomes brainwashed to believe that the rape was good for her! This happens in cult groups such as terrorist enclaves and churches. Yes, churches. The brain of a female victim could rationalize that the pastor was right somehow to rape her. Then, it happens again, and again, and again.
That strange reaction from the brain does not happen to all rape victims however. This is where the individual differences theory plays a part.
In many cases, the brain plots revenge silently. This is the dangerous angle. A sniper rifle or the sniper bottle could do if the culprit is always close-by....
NB: Please google "psychogenic amnesia" and "motivated forgetting" before you comment in the opposite direction.